Archive for the ‘my sex life’ Category

Thursday, December 14, 2006

Housewifely Pursuits

A while back, I wrote a long post about my post-marriage trauma over the housewifely arts. And then Blogger ate that post. But, in a nutshell, it was about how I was trying to get back into cooking, …

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Posted in domestic, my sex life on 12/14/2006 07:53 pm

Thursday, November 16, 2006

Recent Dream Themes

1. (Instead of being sad that I have to live in my dad’s house, or deciding to clean up my dad’s house,) A bunch of irresponsible people have moved into my dad’s house, and I have to …

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Posted in dreams, my sex life on 11/16/2006 03:21 am

Monday, October 16, 2006


I want to cut my hair so that it has bangs, ending at my eyebrows.

I don’t need my boyfriend’s permission to do this, and I don’t want his approval, but I do value his opinion. I asked his …

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Posted in my sex life, vanity on 10/16/2006 02:22 am

Saturday, August 26, 2006

Welcome, Bitter Asian Men

A while back, my boyfriend and I met an Asian author and bought the book he was selling, which dealt with his issues with ethnicity. Afterwards, the author and I emailed a few times, and he …

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Posted in culture, my sex life on 08/26/2006 02:29 am

Friday, July 7, 2006

Things I Have Eaten for the Love of Asians

Meaning, things I have eaten at the urging of my Asian boyfriend’s family and friends.

1. Fish heads.
2. Fish fins. Fish toes, fish brains, fish beaks. Fish cartilage.
3. Fried …

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Posted in culture, domestic, my sex life, vanity on 07/07/2006 01:33 pm

Thursday, February 23, 2006

Expressions of Love, Part One: When a Man Loves a Woman (and Her Scarf)

The other day

No… First I have to tell you something, so you understand this anecdote.

I get really freaked out when people stare at me. …

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Posted in my sex life, psychobabble, stories on 02/23/2006 08:59 pm

Tuesday, February 14, 2006


A good game to play when you’re caught in traffic or just driving somewhere you always drive: First think of a number, like fifteen. Then find fifteen (or whatever number) things that you would like to photograph, if you …

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Posted in health, my sex life, psychobabble, venting, writing on 02/14/2006 12:29 am

Friday, January 20, 2006


1. My boyfriend and I have been fantasizing about the Mexican beach resort vacation we may or may not take this summer. Planning a vacation is so nebulous. Especially when you don’t know if you’re going to have money, …

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Posted in books, culture, domestic, my sex life on 01/20/2006 09:42 pm

Wednesday, January 4, 2006

Finally: The Answers to the Eleven Questions that I, as an Author, Am Most Frequently Asked

1. So, are you and your boyfriend going to get married?

Not at the moment, no. We don’t have any plans to do so.…

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Posted in my sex life, writing on 01/04/2006 11:25 pm

Monday, November 21, 2005

Three-Movie Weekend

Walk the Line was very romanitic. Reese Witherspoon sang beautifully and Joaquin P sang well, too, even if he didn’t sound exactly like Johnny Cash. I hate that the indie-cred-lapping critics are criticizing him for not sounding exactly …

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Posted in my sex life, pop culture on 11/21/2005 02:33 pm